thediaryofayoungman:

Date your guy best friend. Date that guy who knows a lot about you and won’t fail you in any situation especially during the times where you need him the most. Date that guy best friend who you trust and to whom you can share your secrets to. The guy who tells you only the truth and won’t gamble your good relationship through lying.

Date that guy who knows you best. That person who knows that you want a big family and that you want to get married by the time you reach 30. The guy who values how you feel and values your outlook in life. Date your guy best friend who respects you as a woman and as a person. He knows where to put himself in arguments and in most occasions.

Find your guy best friend whom you shared your important moments with. That moment when you delivered your first speech to a huge crowd or to that intimate moment when you knew you had a crush on him. Date that guy who can memorize all of these events and won’t forget your special day.

He’s that guy who is comfortable having you as his company or as his partner. He’ll be there calling you whenever he needed someone to go with him do the groceries or to fetch his little nephew at school. There will be no awkward moments, just happy and special ones.

Be with that person to whom you discussed everything with. He values your opinion that is why he wanted to hear your view regarding the latest political topic or how he looks with his new haircut. He’s your guy best friend, the one whom you can talk everything with, even if it takes forever, he’ll be there to listen.

You’ll accept him even if he has a lot of imperfections, for he is your guy best friend. He’s that guy who loves to wear that dirty old stained blue jeans, the one who burps after he eats or the person who loves to read books. To you, he’s perfect. To him, you’re perfect too.

Date your guy best friend who you know best. There is no pressure on how to be liked or no worries about not looking to good and especially, no little lies. He’s that person whom you can have the most honest relationship with.

16th Nov 2011 (3:02 pm) - Reblogged from A Young Man's Diary